Why Some Of Us Have To Lose . . . To Win.

We sabotage ourselves. Blame reinforces. Strengthens boney finger pointing.

No conflict. No us. Without a fight, we don't exist. Conflict excites. Brings rush to life.

Blame sucks. Sucks the blood of accountability, right out of us.

Leaves us stone cold. Arouses craving. Like the elixir of warm blood to a vampire.

For some, losing wins. For many, it's the only winning we know.

Presidents are no different. We're no different, until we are.